Friday, February 6, 2009

Be Careful Who Your Friends Are

Sorry friends. I'm having a tough time wrapping my brain around new material this week. So I'll resort to sharing another kid comment, although (shockingly!) this one doesn't come from Aiden.

Food seems to be an issue at our house these days. At lunch recently I learned that something my kids have always liked, they no longer like. This is probably due to the fact that I lack creativity and am not really a "food person," something I obviously need to work on if I'm going to keep my Tribe fed.

Anyway, our conversation went something like this:

"C'mon in for lunch, guys." To which I was first met by eager faces as four little bodies scrambled into their chairs. Their faces instantly fell. "What's wrong?" I asked.

I then heard three different versions, plus some Sigourney babble (she loves to join in on the action), about what was wrong with the food on their plates.

So I pulled out the big gun.

"You know, I have a friend who takes her children's plates away and gives them only water to drink when they complain about the food they're served." This revelation horrified them and they began to eat, albeit ever so slowly.

A few moments later the leader of the pack, six year old AJ, piped up in his most respectful manner: "Mom, I don't think you should be friends with that mom anymore. She's a bad influence and teaches you how to be mean to your children."

Hmmm...wonder where he learned that?

8 comments:

Sarah Mae said...

Ha!

At our house if our little girl complains about what I made, my husband says, "you will not complain, you will say 'thank you mommy, may I have some more." :)

Van Beek family said...

I so wish I could meet your children!

Heidi Pocketbook said...

I hope you're keeping hard copies of what your kids are saying as well... like in a cute little journal. It will make a good item to reflect back on ;-) You sound like you are indeed blessed with independent thinkers.

FeeBeeKay said...

Evening Sara - your little ones sound fantastic - such a great attitude already in ones that are so young! You should be really proud of raising such articulate and smart children! Even at 10 months Amelie is starting to turn her nose up at things - goodness knows what she'll be like when she get to 3 years old! Now she just turns her head to the side and mashes her lips tight shut - point blank refuses to even entertain some things on certain days. Just whatever mood she's gotten up in!

Hope you are going gently on yourself right now and not forgetting to look after yourself too - you are very precious to them all, and some of us out here in the cyberworld are growing rather fond of you too!! Take care of yourself!

Fiona x

Walking on Sunshine... said...

You should never get tired of writing about your kids and their fabulous remarks!! I agree, who could ever only give their children water??? Love it!!!! I'm giving out awards tomorrow and you need to stop by and pick one up! Have a great weekend!

Busy Mom in NJ said...

I'm seriously laughing out loud. He really takes things to heart.. He's listening and learning every day. Miss you all.. Big hugs to the gang from us. xoxo

Debbie said...

This made me laugh out loud. I love kid stories keep telling them. Have a great weekend!

Liz said...

HA!!! That was a very good story...you are raising your kids up very well.....